Ugh. I have many answers. Noise, messes, so much laundry, children not following simple instructions. Some adults, I have a lot to manage and I have a hard time giving grace and patience to adults who cannot manage things well, honestly. That hurts to admit.
I struggle with patience... but He always reminds me of His grace. And that IF I am walking in His Spirit then patience will come out naturally. I want to be found in Him and I usually have a check in my spirit about my impatience. So when I do struggle, I walk away for a while, or send the child I am struggling with away. We both need time to breathe.
The patiences He shows me catches my breath. Throughout scripture I see His perfect patience. All the answers I should know, all the ways I should have grown by now. His perfect patience reveals to me His love. And in that, I can see how my fruit should come, because of Him. His grace. His patience. It calls me deeper into Him. In my abiding, I will bear much fruit.